Friday, July 31, 2009

A 2-liner

When you have received something you need without even asking for it, you are loved.
When you give something someone needs without waiting for them to ask, you love.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Remote Tech Support

Most of us would have faced this. Our not-so-tech-savvy parents living away need to do something complex on their machine - like install a web cam driver, or setup some app - and we want to help them remotely.

I found a reference to an approach on lifehacker using VNC to do just this and got it to work successfully with my folks in India.

http://www.raymond.cc/blog/archives/2007/04/05/free-and-easy-remote-access-with-vnc-reverse-connections/

Forwarding port on my router admin application was also easy, and didn't really require a special tool. Also important is to disable the port forward after the session is over.

Let me know if you guys need any help!

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

What's next on the Web

Since last week or so, I have been trying to find a very very simple but useful app which I would construct to start my experience developing with GWT. I wanted the web app to serve a useful purpose. That was and is my most important goal. I would say that so far, I haven't been very successful. I came up with some ideas, but they wouldn't be anything special and more useful than something that already exists out there.

Here is an opinion, or rather a question.

I think web technology in the last decade or so has crossed an important barrier in its providing us abilities to communicate effectively. The advent of social networks has made people feel more connected than before. IP voice, chats, video conferencing, photo & video sharing on internet have all helped us stay much closer to people & information, more effectively and at lesser costs in recent times. Web 2.0 was the era of improving communication. Perhaps it was the weakest problem that had the most impact on most people's lives. And technologists pounced on it.

Is communication still the most important problem now? Will more solutions for general communication problems still have significant benefit? Or are there other (perhaps weaker) problems whose solutions will have a far greater impact in how we do things?

Just trying to change the way I think...

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Superstitions

Its funny to see how superstitions have slowly gained more importance in my life as I have become older. I can still vividly recall the days being the lone guy who didn't bother to pay my exam fees on a Tuesday (considered a not so good day). My close friends would wait for the auspicious days to do that important action. At that time, I honestly didn't care too much about rank or recognition. I wasn't scared of anything - I felt I had nothing to lose. I believed I was the one who created my destiny. And you know what! I ended up with a university rank!

Comparing those days with now, I seem to have a lot more now that I feel I cannot afford to lose. My achievements, how people perceive me, my wife and family, my relationship with my friends etc. I really seem to need them now! In those days, I would dare to my mother and hand her the salt box without placing it on the table. (Changing salt hand to hand directly is considered a taboo and it is believed that the two people involved will fight if they do.) Now-a-days, I seem to think twice before I try that. I once yelled at my wife when she cut her nails carelessly in the living room. (It is said that if one steps over another's nail, they will fight).

I remember a few years ago I had a prolonged disagreement with a friend, and I remember that I had lent him salt. Perhaps, it was a coincidence, but it has registered in my mind as a probable cause. Such unwelcome incidents just happen and our brain creates connections from past experiences, and it just comes up magically with the reasons!

But the bigger message I want to convey is that it is indeed amazing to know how we gradually hold on to things in our lives! We tighten the grip as time goes on; we don't want to let go of them at all!

I guess I am ok with it. It is just a game I am willing to play!

Friday, June 05, 2009

Stories from our Europe Visit

This post describes the prominent experiences from our Europe Trip. It is going to be a rather long post on demand from our friends and relatives!

Paragliding at Interlaken
: The highlight of the entire trip without any doubt was the 15 to 20 minutes we spent Paragliding in the air at Interlaken. One of the best experiences - especially with two lakes below, bright green forest covered mountains around, and snow capped Alps in the horizon! Paragliding is supposed to be a very safe sport when done properly - much safer than hand gliding or sky diving. We were told that it was becoming more and more popular lately among the adventurers. It is not as much an adrenaline pumping sport really. The calm peace in the air was breathtaking. We did it in tandem with our pilots (they call themselves a pilot even though they are not maneuvering a plane). The group was driven up the hill at Beatenberg in a van up to the launching point which is kind of a 45 degree meadow slope. 800m below was Interlaken and the two lakes. The pilot helped us with the gear, and then opened up the parachutes which surprisingly fit in an extra-large sized backpack. We wait in line seeing others run just about 5 to 10 steps gently down the hill before their chute opens up, and off they glide, smoothly into the air. It did not appear difficult or risky watching them do it. My wife was a little nervous that morning, but was comfortable with all that went on. She took off with her pilot ahead of me, and about three or four take offs after that was my turn. It was as simple as I saw others doing it. Before even I could think of being scared, we were in the air, and I was sitting comfortably in my seat with the glorious view around me. I had requested for a longer flight time, but the thermal conditions were not feasible that day. To glide upwards, rising hot air is essential, and the weather was not warm enough to prevent the descent. We landed after about 15 minutes on an open field right next to where we started. The landing was very simple, much like a 3 foot jump and a couple of steps along with the momentum. It was beautiful to watch the parachutes deflate and hit the ground as others in the group took turns to land. The ecstasy after that experience would be long remembered.

Black Forest: I had been all excited about this hike from months before the trip. My brother who was here before had many good things to say about the Black Forest, and all the information I got from my research concurred. But here was our problem. That morning when we planned to hike, we found that rain and thunderstorms were expected the whole day. Feldberg, where we wanted to hike was about 90 minutes away from Freiburg which was our base. Logistics and weather predictions at Heidelberg (planned for the next day) prevented us from swapping the trips. It was not raining yet at Freiburg, so we just decided to take the train/bus to Feldberg and defer the decision to hike when we were there.

As we rode in the train within the Black Forest towards Feldberg, we could see why it was fantastic to hike out here. Apparently, hiking was "invented" here! We reached our destination (Feldbergerhof) with lots of hopes. But to our ill luck, we found the starting point for the hike situated up the hill completely covered with fog. It was disappointing to hear further from the folks out there that rain was imminent. The scenery around us was nevertheless beautiful. The wetness enhanced the bright green color and everything was clean and pristine. It was nature at its best! But, all the more reason for us to be disappointed! :-(

Having come all the way, we decided we were not going to leave empty handed. We bought the tickets and took the cable car up the hill anyway. We would further defer the decision to hike once we got up there. It was not raining yet, so we would have three options - hike back down the same hill quickly, do the long 4 hour hike, or the short 2 hour hike. If the weather didn't improve, we could take the cable car back down. We passed in the cable car through the dense fog up to the top of the hill. Miraculously, the fog cleared almost as soon as we hit the top. The view from the top into the horizon was superb, but it was still overcast and cloudy. Decision time again. That was when we made the call of the trip!

We decided on the shorter version of the Feldberg hike for two hours. I had the map which Black Forest Tourism folks had sent to us as part of the brochures. Looking at the hiking path map may help understand our story. From the Bismarkdenkmal at the end of the cable car ride, we would take the shorter route down via the Emil-Thoma Weg, the steep descent down to Raimartihof hut, walk around Feldsee lake and climb up back towards Feldbergerhof, close to the cable car base where we started. The hike was beautiful. We saw grass covered meadows, little streams gushing underneath remnants of winter ice, dense forest, small wooden bridges across cascades, sound of all kinds of birds chirping in happiness (I am sure!), freshly sprouting greenery all around like we've never seen before, sliced tree trunks cut into chips and placed neatly on the wet portions of the path, beds of little yellow springtime flowers! To hike under the sun in the Black Forest would certainly be an experience, but to hike under the clouds was I think was even better. It was a treat. We clicked photographs away to glory. Now and then we said hi to other hikers young and old who were enjoying the same moments. We checked and ensured with them that we were indeed heading in the right direction. After all, we were not the only ones who decided to hike the Black Forest that cloudy day.

We ate the Subway Sandwich we brought as we walked and used the time the Rain Gods gave us efficiently. Soon enough, we came to a unmarked fork. Should we choose left or right ? The left path was wider, but the right one seemed to go in the direction to Feldsee. The right one was also descending, which was expected because the lake was down below. So we chose to go right. The descent was gradual as it had been so far. However, the path seemed to be unused and deserted as we walked further, and it soon was a growing concern. I decided that we would go further down a bit and then decide. Fortunately we hit what appeared to be a dust road. A sign indicated the direction to Feldsee. Ah ha, we were not lost after all! Further down, we saw a path sign directing to Raimartihof hut, which was further reassurance. However, the satisfaction was almost immediately stunted when we saw the "Path Closed" sign a few yards ahead. A slipping stick figure indicated why. It was written in English too, which meant that it was indeed important and to be heeded (most signs out there were only in German). According to my map, the distance to Feldsee was not too much from where I thought we were, and the slipping sign made sense because we wouldn't have descended much enough from where we last saw the lake, and it would have to be a very steep descent. No taking risks in other directions now because (a) we didn't have enough time - we had to take the last train out early evening. (b) it was cloudy and rain was imminent (c) my wife has not hiked down steep terrains before.

I decided that we would climb back up the way we came. I remembered that we saw a marked intersection much before we met the unmarked fork. That intersection had a shorter 1.5 km marked path towards Feldbergerhof, which would safely take us back to where we started. We made climbed up, and slowy but steadily met our "fork of adventure" and then hiked up again to meet our "intersection of safety." The path towards Feldbergerhof was almost flat and very pleasant. It was still not raining, but the clouds were getting thick and dark. It didn't take us too long before the cable car base station came in sight to our relief. Rain was the perfect end to our hike - and it had to be. they were patient for so long! The last 300 meters or so, we walked together towards shelter under one umbrella with the rain and wind blowing against us.

Schilthorn: The Schilthorn day was more a well planned and deterministic experience than what the Black Forest would later be in our trip. We had two excursion options in the Alps. The first one was by train to Jungfraujoch (pronounced YOONG-frau-YOKE), the highest train station in Europe on Mount Jungfrau which is the tallest peak in the Alps. Or we could go to Schilthorn which is a vantage point with great view of the snow-capped Alps including Jungfrau. Both of us agreed on the latter because we were told that we would enjoy it better if we had already played with snow (plenty at Jungfraujoch) and that it was a better value for the money.

We started from Interlaken in a train to Lauterbrunnen, a little town in the valley between two huge mountain ranges. This map may help visualize. A cable car took us upwards on the south side cliffs to Grutschalp. The ride in the cable car was a little crowded but had exhilarating views of the valley down below covered with green meadows, pine trees and little cabins. We then hiked for about 2 hours to Murren along the ridge towards the snow capped mountains in view ahead of us. Jungfrau was one of them. From Murren, we took another cable car to Birg and then up to Schilthorn. There was a 360 degree view of the majestic mountains out on the top. It was a good time for lunch at the revolving restaurant. Dhal Makhni in the menu was no surprise by then because we had been seeing Indians all around us. Switzerland appears to be a favorite destination for our folks. Apparently Bollywood films shoot very often here with the mountains as the backdrop.

The descent was via Birg, to Murren, to Gimmelwald, then to Stechelberg, all by cable cars. We chose to hike the segment from to Murren to Gimmelwald. A bus then took us from Stechelberg to Lauterbrunnen and we took trains towards Grindelwald from there. The night was to be spent at Grindelwald.

The lowlight of the day was the tired return trip back to Lauterbrunnen as soon as something hit our minds at Grindelwald. We had locked our bags in the locker at Lauterbrunnen station in the morning and forgot to pick it up on our way back. :-(

Neuschwanstein Castle Tour: This was another high during our trip. We went along with Mikes's Bike Tours who did a very good job of planning out the day. If anyone is visiting Munich, these guys are much recommended. We left early to Fussen by train, two hours from Munich. A bus took us to the base of the mountain where the castle stands. The castle looked beautiful from below, nestled amidst the dense green trees. After a quick tomato-cheese sandwich lunch along with a history lesson from our guide, we took a quick glance of Hoenschwangau castle (where King Ludwig II who built the castle grew) and started a very steep 30 minute hike upwards. The guide seemed ruthless as he continued without stopping regularly, but it was for a reason. The castle interior tour ticket had a designated start time and there was nothing you could do if you missed your time slot. The tour was worth it. You could see why they called him "Mad King Ludwig" after seeing how extravagantly he spent on the castle. He apparently died mysteriously before he could complete the castle, and our guide was with the opinion that he was murdered to stop the crazy spending.

Our group then hiked down the mountain along a waterfall gorge, and walked towards Tegelberg a beautiful mountain in that area. We rode on the Alpine Slide, a 5 minute thrill-slide down from the top of a hill upon a bobsled on wheels. Then the 1 hour bike tour around the area - which was fantastic. I had not touched a bike since going to school at ASU, and my wife hadn't since her high school days! The scenery around was fantastic and that that was the best part of biking out there. A bus brought the exhausted group back to Fussen station in the evening. The day long busy but fascinating tour ended with some magic by our guide before we boarded the train at Fussen. He was apparently a student at a German school of magic. The two hour train ride via Buchloe brought us back to Munich and we deservedly hit the bed almost immediately.

Boring Rhine: It was with a lot of expectation that we planned for the Rhine Cruise. The Rick Steve and several other tour books marked it a "must-see" and the best thing to do in Germany. But we personally thought that it was not worth all the hype. It was beautiful no doubt, but it was not something that couldn't have been skipped. We did the 50km stretch from Koblenz to Bingen called the "Romantic Rhine" and recommended by many. The six hours on the ship we must say was rather boring and probably too long. The brief views of the castles every 30 minutes or so gathered some interest in the beginning, but at the end we didn't even bother looking out. There was nothing much to do on the ship other than have lunch and dessert, both of which we did. Perhaps the boredom was also because we already had a blitz view of those castles when we went the other direction by train the previous evening. And perhaps, our previous cruise on Lake Luzern and paddle-boat ride on Thunersee brought us to our saturation levels on boats.

Other moments in our trip worth mentioning
I was personally annoyed by the fact that many restaurants in Europe denied to serve us free drinking water. It was ridiculous. What was even more stupid was they did not allow outside water. Most stations and public places did not have a water fountain. The only decent way to get a drink was to buy the 3.40 Swiss Franc small water bottle. In our first thirsty experience, we bought one of those bottles to find that it was actually the carbonated bitter water which we could not even sip. Too bad you can't read German! But then, that purchase didn't go for a total toss. We saved the bottle and from then on, used it to fill tap water from our hotel rooms and carried along with us.

It was evident from our excellent trip that Germany has risen up from their racist history of the Nazi era, but I could still feel hostility at times. Once was on our last day in Germany at Munich station. It was a four hour expected wait for us before we could board our train to Zurich. Since we had Eurail 1st class tickets, I inquired at the counter if we could use the DB Lounge (a waiting area designated for 1st class passengers). The man in the counter trying hard to make himself sound polite responded tersely by saying that DB 1st class customers paid 2000 Euros every year and I was not to use the DB Lounge under any circumstance. Yes - he used the precise words "under any circumstance". I could not stop taking offense to that statement. But I left it at that because he was the only English speaking person there, and I had to get as much information from him about our upcoming journey.

Switzerland on the other hand was excellent. A very hospitable country indeed. Very accommodating in terms of language as well. Most signs and announcements were in English too, and people were more friendly. I have stayed in many hotels before, but I must vouch for the fact that the most hospitable hoteliers I have been with was Usula and Chris at Hotel Rugenpark, Interlaken where we stayed for 3 nights. They were FANTASTIC and took wonderful care of us. Anyone going there is assured of excellent service and personal care. They helped us with everything - planning what to see and do, booking tickets, filling us in with restaurant ideas and were more than willing to answer all my questions very patiently. Reminded me of how we are supposed to be treating others.

One final thing I must mention even though this post is going really long is about the trains in Europe. They were excellent and very reliable! I think we boarded more than about 40 trains, boats and buses in our trip (we were surprised too when we counted) and almost all of them departed and arrived on the scheduled minute or so. During our journey between Luzern and Interlaken, a coach's electric line burst and became disabled at a station on the way. The coach was promptly removed from the train in just about 10 minutes, and we still made it to Interlaken on time. The kind conductor confirmed the details of our next connection and even offered to phone the other train to hold on for us in case there was a delay.

Wednesday, June 03, 2009

Schweiz & Deutschland

My wife and I just came back from a 10 day trip to Switzerland and Germany. Very beautiful countries - well worth the money and time for the visit. If any of you are planning to go there, do let me know and I can make some good recommendations.

Let me start with why we chose these two countries.
  • Since the visit was planned for 10 days, variety in experience was most important so we would not get bored doing and seeing the same things.
  • Although both of us appreciated art to a good extent, we were not ready to invest our time and money entirely on museums and monuments which pervade several European countries. Europe has a rich history and I should commend them for having preserved it in its greatest form, but unless you are a historian or deeply into art forms, you would not appreciate it to the level deserved. Both of us admire nature to a far greater level than museums. Switzerland has the Alps which I have always pictured in my mind for a long time. Germany has the greenery and castles and rivers. It brings in the right blend of nature and history, so we would also experience its historical significance too.
  • Quality was important than quantity, so we kept to just two countries instead of scrambling far across cities in the continent. There was enough variety for 10 days in Switzerland and Germany. Moreover, adding more countries in the Eurail pass costs much more than additional days in the same country.
Reluctant to splurge with travel agents and vacation planners, I spent several months on persistent research to find out what the best places were to visit in the ten days we planned to be there. It is indeed less expensive to do it yourself. For us, all costs (including visa, tickets, food and any related expense) for 10 days totaled to around USD4100, which was no where close to what others offered for 5 days. Planning ourselves worked out excellently well because we decided what we want to see, and could dynamically change when we wanted. Researching was itself a nice way to learn about the places of significance. It ended up being more satisfying at the end of the day because we did it all by ourselves!

These were our best sources of information.
  • Rick Steve's Germany & Rick Steve's Switzerland - I got these books from the local public library and carried them with me during the trip. Wonderful books with a lot of good information. Very comprehensive, and eliminated the need for a guide in several places. His short suggestions on logistics for some places are excellent, but many times very brief - not fully understandable by a person new to the place. You will need to follow up and get more detail from other sources, perhaps from people at the point of interest itself.
  • My brother and sister in law who have visited and lived in Germany for a while.
  • Tourism websites for the specific cities we chose to visit.
  • TripAdvisor.com for hotel reviews, reviews on attractions and things to do, posting questions whose answers I could not find elsewhere on the internet. Great site! Very helpful community. Every passionate traveler should become a member, contribute and share.
  • Kayak.com for hotels and flight tickets.
  • Phone. This was the BEST source of reliable information for me! Reading from books and Internet is one thing, but speaking on the phone directly with the people you will be dealing with there is the best thing you can do from home. I used prepaid computer-to-phone service using Yahoo Voice. Germany calls were around 1 cent a minute and Switzerland calls were around 2 cents a minute. I just prepaid the minimum $10 which was more than sufficient for me.
We took a 5-day Germany-Switzerland Eurail Saver Flexi Pass. It was strange that the saver pass was available only for 1st class, but it was nevertheless good because the 1st class coaches are relatively empty and calm. It came to $350 a person, which is excellent considering cost of travel here in the US. We decided to keep our luggage light since we would need to be really mobile. So each of us had just the small pull-along suitcase along with a backpack. We decided to spend money on laundry in the middle of our trip and reuse our clothes.

Food was a very important concern keeping in mind our vegetarian diet. An option was to pack, but it was out of the question considering the time and effort for cooking during the trip, and the luggage restriction we placed for ourselves. Here is what we did. We carried with us a box of cereal bars each. We decided to buy fruits along our way regularly. I found several places to eat from vegetarian restaurant sites like www.happycow.net. I even found that the Subway Sandwich chain is widespread in Germany. Searching for Indian restaurants in Google maps also worked well. The maps and notes about the restaurants I prepared and took with us was well worth it. But I must say however that by the time we came back home, we were really longing for some home cooked food. We were tired of the bread-butter-jam, sweet cereals and sandwich routine. What we wanted was some traditional home-cooked Vettha Kozhambu, Rasam Saadam, Applam, Beans curry and most importantly, Thair Saadam. And if possible, all this on a vaazhai elai! Thoughts of these delicacies were pervading our minds during the last few days of our trip!

For cash, we carried with us travelers checks for safety, but we mostly relied on our ATM cards. Before leaving, I notified our banks and credit card companies about our travel plans so they would not block our withdrawals for suspicious activity. I found out that the best card in our pocket with the least fees was the Bank Of America debit card. It had the least exchange fee of 1%. We didn't expect the $5 ATM fee charged each time by BOA while we drew cash in Switzerland. [I was told in TripAdvisor that ATMs in Europe never charged ATM fee]. However, withdrawals from Deutsche Bank in Germany (partner of BOA) was excellent - no exchange fee, no ATM fee. The exchange rates offered were excellent and on par with the then rates.

Here was our actual itinerary very briefly. I would say we stuck to about 80% of what we planned initially. We changed dynamically depending on the weather and interest in variety.

Day 0: Fly out of EWR to ZRH in the evening hours.

Day 1: Landed in ZRH in the morning hours - Cleaned up quickly - to-go breakfast from airport fast food - Train to Luzern - Luggage in station locker - Self-guided walking tour of old town - Lowendenkmal monument - Lunch at Kanchi Indian Restuarant - 2 hour cruise on Lake Luzern - Golden Pass Route (scenic train) to Interlaken West - check-in to Rugenpark B&B - Dinner at Little India - town walk - crash for the day

Day 2: Breakfast at hotel - Paragliding in Beatenberg (highlight of the trip) - Interlaken scenic river walk - Lunch at Welcome India - Bus to Neuhaus - Unsuccessful attempt to boat in Lake Thunersee (no rentals available) - back to Interlaken by bus - some shopping - dinner at Tamil Take Out Shop (bad one) - crash for the day at Rugenpark B&B.

Day 3: Breakfast at hotel - Train to Lauterbrunnen - Luggage in lockers - Cable up to Grutschalp - Hike to Murren - Cable to Birg - Cable up to Schilthorn - Lunch at Revolving Restaurant - Cable down to Murren - Hike down to Gimmelwald - Cable down to Stechelberg - Bus to Lauterbrunnen - Luggage from locker - Train to Grindelwald via Zweilütschinen - Pick up pizza dinner - checkin to Mountain Hostel - eat and crash for the day

Day 4: Breakfast at hostel - Relax - Walk around Grindelwald - Train back to Interlaken West - bus to Neuhaus - Pedal boat rental on Lake Thunersee - Ate packed lunch in middle of the lake - back to Interlaken by bus - Swiss Army knife shopping - Checkin back again into Rugenpark B&B - Dinner at Little India - crash for the day.

Day 5: Breakfast at hotel - Train to Brig via Speiz - Glacier Express (scenic train) to Chur - packed lunch in the train - To Freiburg (Germany) via Basel - dinner at Subway - Checkin to Intercity Hotel - crash for the day.

Day 6: Breakfast at hotel - Train/bus to Feldberg - Decision to hike despite rain prediction (the best decision in the trip) - Ate packed Subway sandwich in the Black Forest - lost for a while in woods - traced our way back into safe path - cherish successful hike - bus/train back to Freiburg - relax - walk in old town and Cathedral - dinner at Jaipur - crash for the day.

Day 7: Breakfast at hotel - Train to Heidelberg via Mannheim - Local bus to castle base - up the hill by funicular - guided tour in castle - down by funicular - walk into old town - lunch at Subway - Walk across the riven on the Old Bridge, climb up to the Philosopherweg for excellent city/castle view. Bus back to station - Train to Koblenz via Mannheim - Check in to Hotel National - walk into Old Town - Dinner at Taj Mahal - crash for the day

Day 8: Breakfast at hotel - Bus to Koblenz KD dock - Rhine River Cruise from Koblenz to Bingen - lunch in the ship - Walk from Bingen KD to Hbf - Train to Munich via Mainz/Frankfurt - dinner at Subway - check in to Four Points Hotel - crash for the day.

Day 9: Self-made Bread/jelly/ketchup breakfast - The day for Mikes Bike Tour to Neuschwanstein Castle - Walk to Train station - Train to Fussen - Bus to Castle base - Steep hike up to castle - view from Mary's Bridge - Castle Tour - Hike down via the waterfall gorge - Hike to Tegelberg - Alpine Slide - Bike Ride in the hills and around the lake - Bus back to Fussen - Train back to Munich via Buchloe - Pizza Dinner at station - bus to hotel - crash for day.

Day 10: Self-made Bread/jelly/ketchup breakfast - Got Munich Public Transport day tickets - U-Bahn to Station - Luggage in Locker - S Bahn to MarienPlatz - Find that the bike tour planned is canceled that day - self tour to Viktualienmarkt - U-Bahn/bus to English Garden - packed Subway sandwich lunch - bus back to station - Train to Zurich - dinner in train's restaurant - shuttle to Moevenpick Hotel Aiport - check in - crash for the day.

Day 11: Shuttle to airport - check in luggage - breakfast at airport - fly out of ZRH - arrive at EWR in the afternoon.

OK... that's good enough for this long post. When I find some time, I will describe the highlights of our experiences at the best places in the next posts.

Update: Here is the blog post with details of our experiences

Monday, April 13, 2009

Importance of a Well Rounded Education

In India, at least in the years that I went to college, a bachelors in Engineering or Technology was the way to go. Especially Computer Science. The only other option is Medicine. You are considered among the elite group if you got a seat at a good engineering college in a good major or if you are going to end up as a doctor. The rest, who choose the remaining opportunities in Commerce, Economics or Arts majors, unintentionally arrogant as I may sound, are not considered worthy enough. Kids reaching high school and doing their pre-university years are inculcated with the mindset that they need to find a seat in Engineering or Medicine, otherwise their lives will be wasted and unsuccessful. Such is the narrow mindset of the major populous. Education there is not chosen based on skills and personal fulfillment, but based on available opportunity. My main point I am trying to emphasize in this post is that the effect of this in the long run is not a well rounded society.

The ongoing recession has brought misery to several, but it has been a good thing in at least one way. It has instigated many including me to study in a deeper fashion the dynamics of the economy - at the micro as well as macro level. I have slowly begun to understand in a profound way the real meaning of capitalism. I am able to understand why and how stimulus money that the government is pouring into the system could improve the economy. I am not in anyway implying that I am in favor of capitalism or the decision to stimulate, but this has opened my eyes on how far reaching, economic decisions which our politicians make can be. And that understanding the cause and effects of different decisions is the real meaning of economics. I did not know this in school, not in my college years, and not even in my years of my graduate degree. Only when one weathers a significant storm does one try to understand what really went past.

This makes me understand the importance of the decision makers who assume the leadership roles of nations. They ought to know what they are doing. They need to be knowledgeable about the situation in order to make the right decisions. Their education should be broad enough to understand effects of their actions across industries, cultures, state and national boundaries, and across their domains of expertise.

Does India have such leaders? Just a handful perhaps. The education system which I mentioned above would not really produce such skills consistently. It actually creates people who live in their own little world, helplessly and totally disoriented when impacted by external factors, without the ability to decide what is good for themselves. They wait for situation around them to become better instead of knowing what they can do next to make things better.

What can benefit from a change is the well roundedness of education in India. Parents and teachers should teach children importance and value of various domains and industries and how individuals in different industries contribute the national economy. All professions and fields should be respected, more importantly appreciated. Once children are educated about how each profession adds value, they should be left to choose how they want to contribute and create value in whatever they do.

Although very slow, I think this is happening. India is crossing the point where more and more people are living for personal fulfillment than just to live, procreate and die. Professions are slowly being chosen more for how individuals can add value, than just for how well individuals can earn and survive.Ours is such a diverse country with various kinds of people, different cultures, different perspectives, different backgrounds, different talents, different weaknesses. No other country is as diverse realistically speaking. In my opinion, this is exactly what is needed to make a well rounded society. The ingredients are all there. It is just the effort that is needed - from everyone.

Sunday, March 08, 2009

Skiing Lessons Learned

Yesterday my wife and I went skiing at Vernon, NJ. It was her first time and my second time on the skis. My first time was in Flagstaff, AZ about a year ago. I remember I was a little adventurous at that time after we had been through the one-hour lesson. But when I started yesterday, I realized that I had forgotten much of what I had learned the last time. The stopping and turning and not-sliding-away-out-of-control skills did not seem to come naturally and I should admit fear was ruling me. Thankfully we had taken the beginner's package which included the one hour lesson. The second class really helped me gain back some of that confidence and release a little bit of fear. The instructor was very friendly and encouraging. My wife overcame some of her fear too and slid down the bunny slopes a few times. I took the lift up the "chicken" hill (meant for beginners) several times and came down without any problems. Fell a couple of times but was mostly in control. It felt very satisfying at the end of the day.

To make sure I don't forget what I learned, I want to put all the tips here in this post, so I can look at them when I go skiing again.

  • As a beginner, you will find yourself carrying your heavy skis around often. The easiest way to carry then is to balance them on one of your shoulders. Dragging them may be more difficult.
  • The most important secret of skiing is (according to my instructor today) the Chinese whatever, "Shin-Tung". :-) The shin of your feet (basically the front part of your leg between your ankle and knee) should always press the tounge of your shoes tightly so you bend down a little to the front.
  • Hands always in the front of your body. Shin-Tung is the mantra. Leaning backwards is a no-no. You really want to do that only if you want to go out of control!
  • As a beginner, it is good to practice skiing with one ski on at a time on each leg first before trying with both of them on. This gives a feel of sliding without losing control completely.
  • The correct way to wear your skis is by placing them perpendicular to the slope of the hill. Otherwise you are going to slide down. Dig into the snow using the side of your skis that is uphill to get some friction going. This will give you some control you need to stay put without sliding away.
  • The beginner's way to walk uphill with the skiis on is sidewards up the hill in four steps: pole-step-match-pole. If you are going up on your left, then it is left pole first, then your left leg, right leg, and then your right pole one at a time in a sequence.
  • The way to reduce speed and stop while skiing is to form an inverted 'V' with your skis and use friction. To do this you would turn your knees toward each other, and spread your heels apart. Practice stopping on bunny slopes first before taking the lift up the hill.
  • I noticed that the inverted V approach to stop is a beginner's way. The pros who know to turn well stop by making that quick turn to position themselves perpendicular to the slope and use the friction to stop in total control.
  • I found turning quickly at will while staying in total control the hardest park of skiing. To turn, there are two things you would do. First you will need to turn your body so that your belly-button points to the direction you want to go in. Simultaneously, you would slightly press down to the ground the foot on the side of the direction you want to go - to go left gently press your left foot down, to turn right gently press your right foot down. Its like riding a bike.
  • While skiing down steep slopes, control your speed using the inverted V approach.
  • Falling is an intricate part of skiing. Don't tighten yourself up while preparing to fall. The snow is actually softer than hard ground, so falling will not hurt unless you are falling down a steep slope. Roll down naturally. Let the momentum take you however it wishes to; give in to it - let yourself loose. In fact, I feel that falling, rolling down and laughing at yourself is super fun!
Wishing you and myself happy skiing the next time we are on the snow!

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Photography Tip - Filtering Albums

Here is one photography tip I have not seen in many tutorials and web sites. This tip is more applicable with the advent of digital photography which allows us to take pictures using renewable resources and allows us to experiment more without losing much.

Once we download the pictures from our digital camera to our computer, we often neglect the step of filtering the good images from the not-so-good ones. Many times, we just upload our entire album to the internet and share our link with our friends.

I have just noticed that it makes a remarkable difference to the albums if I filter them by setting aside the mediocre pictures. Improperly lit pictures, repeats from experimentation, badly framed ones, mistakes, are all candidates for removal. Variety is also important to retain attention of the viewer.

I don't claim to be a professional photographer, but with just this simple step of removing the bad pictures from my albums, I have been able to give the good pictures a different level of appreciation they deserve.

Saturday, February 07, 2009

Sharing judgment

When we describe some thing or some place, or some person, or some event, to a friend, we often end up not just transferring to them the description to the other person, but also our sense of judgment about that thing, event or person. I am realizing it profoundly when I describe to my wife my past events in my life, people I have interacted with, people who I have a good opinion about, those I don't, people in my life that have transformed me and so on. I see that I not only share with them the facts, but also what I feel about them - its emotional value. Sharing judgment is sometimes good. Sometimes it is not so good. When the event, person or event is a positive one, the effect is wonderful - we are spreading happiness. But when our own perspective of the event is negative, and if the listener accepts the negative perspective blindly, it may not be a good thing.

What I am arriving at is this: It is the responsibility of the narrator to describe the story in such a way that facts are separated from his own judgment. When appropriate, it is always good to clearly indicate to the listener that what he is describing is his own judgment and not necessarily the final verdict. And as a listener, it is important to not blindly accept others judgments, and take them at full value. The listener could use the facts along with his own experience, knowledge and maturity to provide perhaps a different perspective to the subject - which is always better.

Thursday, January 01, 2009

Today's enlightenment

Life presents us various situations to deal with. I realized that these are very important things I constantly need to remind myself of:

- Being true to myself. Being straightforward, open and sincere.
- Having a pure intent. Not wishing negatively for others - in all circumstances.
- Expressing my intent clearly and genuinely - because intentions speak better than action.
- Acting positively towards my good intentions - changing myself if necessary - because no one is perfect.
- Accepting my limitations, and the result - whatever it may be.